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Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

12.06.2025 02:14

Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.

If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.

People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.

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BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.

Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.

It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.

Hi, I’m Jo. My best friend died 2 years ago today. My husband died 6 months later. So, I’m a depressed mess (we were married 28 years) and can’t shake it. Even my Brother is worried. Some days I don’t do anything, and avoid men cause I don’t want to date. Any suggestions? Thanks for reading.

No country for ugly people…

Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.

If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.

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